how about "i am muslim...let's talk" , that would make you the other side of the conversation my point with the group is no matter what comments you have made about islam or muslims , there is still a possibility to at least clarify some misconceptions..that way if you hate isam, may be you can hate it for educated reasons and not look like a fool anytime they ask you : why don't you like islam ? i met a few of you guys, and we had a good time, good conversations and so on.. knowing i am muslim wouldn't have changed anything.