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  1. my neighbor bought chicks and ducks from tractor supply a few years ago, i've never seen a grown man so worried about anything like that. they have a pond in their front yard, but he was out on the road herding them so they didnt get hit, kept them outside in a cage because one got eaten.... it was a lot of work..... it stressed me out just hearing it!
  2. i'm meeting with my realtor about selling green acres. :)

     

    you could also pick up a go cart and four wheeler cheap!

     

    possibly another horse.... cheaper

     

    and

     

    5.5 acres with a house 3bed 1.5 bath, 2 barns and fences not so cheap! :)

  3. Come get the one out of my barn. Prob needs a battery and the tires filled up but everything else is brand new.

     

    Technically its my barn... and this offer has not been pre-approved...

    what the heck.... sure!

     

    we also have a quad and a go cart, since you sound like you need something to run around on that two acres with!

     

    mowers in good shape :)

  4. She was used as a hunter jumper before, and before that she was used western. She’s about 800-850lbs and about 15 hands. She is very sweet and sound. She needs a little ground work to work on her manners but is very safe, doesn’t spook easily. I used her to trail ride, but we haven’t worked with her for a while. My daughter was only two when she started riding her, we have owned her for seven years. $700 is an awesome deal for her and we are firm.

     

    http://i174.photobucket.com/albums/w115/a_dement5/1652.jpg

  5. These are my thoughts exactly. You dont see "WET" because it would be racist. But its okay to have a specific "Black" channel. If everyone wants to put an end to all this, slavery needs to be forgotten and stop being taught in schools.

     

    You must know your past, so it isnt repeated, but also because the past sometimes dictates the future. The problem often lies in people using the "race" card like slavery happened to that person yesterday. The problem isnt with slavery being taught in schools the problem is some people let that history hold them back. There is typically more advantage toward white people in general. However more and more there is more reverse racism towards the white male. Every other category of person is considered a minority therefore COULD possibly receive some sort of advantage or assistance. e.g. grants, affirmative action, some loans etc.

     

    side note ** i met an outstanding teacher yesterday, i worked with her the last two days. she will definitely be a master teacher and a suburban school district ran her through major hoops during the hiring process in the end the hired her white counterpart a person she graduated with. we dont know why but she had a better interview, better references etc and the white woman was hired. maybe she just wasnt a good fit for that district. the neighboring district did hire her though and she is the only black woman in that district.

    so was it racism??? or a form of??? [at the district that didnt hire her?]

  6. hopefully you sent flowers to work to show all her co workers how sweet you are and that you were thinking about her while she was working, and went to the gym anyway... but you should take her out.

    v day is usually about the woman...

    although i got my man a long stem rose box with his favorite beer inside along with some peanuts and chocolates... which i gave him before he ran out of the house to work.

    i am probably getting nothing and he's working while i'm cleaning...

    hope yours goes better than mine!!

  7. Because forever is a long ass time...it's like...forever. I don't really know why... I have a hard time ordering off a menu at some places because that's a decision that's going to affect my hunger for the next few hours, let alone the person that is going to affect my life for the rest of my life. Well maybe it's not that extreme, but it's just a tuff, scary decision and for now I don't have to face it. Besides people change, I’ve changed over the past 6 years and so has Kari (my G/F). I just want to make sure we are both comfortable with our lives as individuals before we commit to each other. I’m 24 and she’s 31 so we look at things a bit different. That and lets face it, rings are expensive ;)

     

    Although I would like to say age doesn't matter, it sort of does, when you factor life experience into the equation. I totally understand where she is, especially if she's older and you two will be wanting to have kids. For women a pregnancy @ 35 or older is considered high risk and usually its harder to conceive. [How's that for pressure] :)

    Kevin and I started dating when he was 23[almost 24] & I was 29. I am glad that we are where we are now, but there is no way I would recommend that.. we were at two totally different places in our lives coming from extremely different background experiences. Truly it's amazing we made it through a lot of it. But when it's right it's right and when you know that person is there and you're a team it's not always going to be perfect but things will work out if you both want them to. Even when I am so pissed I can't see straight I still cannot imagine my life with anyone else, I wouldn't want to wake up to anyone else. There isn't anyone else I would share myself with. [and those who know us really well know that when it's bad it can get ugly, but more often it's good & it's the connection and the love and passion we have, most do not have, it's incredible]

     

    You will know when you're ready, because you're right forever is a long ass time!!!

  8. Congrats guys.....

     

    Now Kevin, did you buy her a new TV yet since you weren't around to help carry the first one the first time?

     

    ha!!!!! actually we're bringing one home tomorrow! Another 42'' LCD if i drop this one i think he'll beat me :)

     

     

     

    Help me with that, from a woman’s perspective. Why is it the woman always wants to get married and the guy...well...he just eventually agrees. Girls see their friends get married and Oh snap, “when are WE getting married?” starts up. I heard about it all summer. 3 of her friends got married and we went to all the weddings. Now her younger sister is engaged and so is my best friend and she is always dropping hints. I tell her “I love you” and she points to her ring finger. :lol: Don’t get me wrong, I love my G/F we’ve been through a lot in our 6 years and have always hung in there with each other. I think most of our friends see us a married already. I want a nice wedding too, not like I dream about it or anything. But what is it about getting married for women that is the same as a guy getting an exotic car or scoring the game winning touch down in the super bowl? Seriously, women are all about getting married and I just don’t see what the big deal is… Sorry, I’m not trying thread jack or sound like a downer and rain on the good new, just wanted a female perspective.

     

    I'm not sure what it is. For me I know that he and I had been through hell and high water and we had made it. Every day we made the decision to come home to the other one and maintain our family, life and love. But for me I wanted the outward symbol of that commitment and dedication. Very simply it takes it up a notch, if only in a woman's head. So let me ask you a question. If you love her and are planning to be with her anyway and it puts her at ease by doing it then why wouldn't you?

     

     

    I've been married for over 4 months. I haven't had to say goodbye.

     

    Good luck. I'm very happily married. But my wife was never waiting, nor would ever make the comment "3 long years." I never felt 1 ounce of pressure; I made the choice to ask her, and knew it was never expected of me. Last chick that tried the expected of me stuff, well, I never even looked at a ring, let alone considered actually asking her.

     

    I can only hope Kevin never felt any pressure to ask. Something about the inital post just rubbed me the wrong way.

     

    Well I'm sorry that you took it that way, you would have to know our relationship, as well as our senses of humor.... and all the unbelievably incredible shit we've been through together. Anyone who knows Kevin well knows he isn't pushed into anything... actually he's so stubborn it usually makes him do the opposite!

    Very simply when Kevin and I met, we met our match, or equal.

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