Because god forbid a woman with independence and a little bit of self respect exists on CR. I feel as though your rude attempt at "woman jokes" is in fact your last attempt at being funny. When Patterson posts them, I laugh, because he does it all in good humor. You on the other hand, should focus more on your own self respect. You should also stop posting your "I don't care about what anyone thinks" threads as well, because as it is stated above by someone else, you actually do care. My relationship should be the last thing that you should be concerned about.