It was because of this type of thread I left the site for six months. I know you all really don't care but after my miscarriage in August this dumb fighting wasn't worth it to me any more. Ben and I getting pulled through the mud because someone's e-feelings were hurt was bullshit after what I went through. But no one on here cares that Ben and I are real people too! So on a night like this when people jump into the bullshit from left field and send me PMs and call me to drag me into it I'll say FUCK OFF!