ShoMeSomeFun Posted February 28, 2008 Author Report Share Posted February 28, 2008 Dude, seriously you need a fucking lawyer. If you care about the kid, sell a car and get REAL legal counsel. That is real advice. However, if you're just looking for lower payments and visitation rights, I again don't respect you. If you think she's crazy and you love the kid, go for custody, she shouldn't have him. If you just want to play with him, then hand him back to the woman to do all the work, you should pay, allot. No Im not asking for lower payments, she wants more money and I dont get to see him at all. We agreed to $450 a month, and we would do 50% shared time with him. I have him for a week, then she have him for a week. I make 2400 a month, add a car note, insurance, cell phone, rent, etc. it all adds up. I normally left with around 300 after bills. And she claims him on her taxes. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Putty Posted February 28, 2008 Report Share Posted February 28, 2008 No Im not asking for lower payments, she wants more money and I dont get to see him at all. We agreed to $450 a month, and we would do 50% shared time with him. I have him for a week, then she have him for a week. I make 2400 a month, add a car note, insurance, cell phone, rent, etc. it all adds up. I normally left with around 300 after bills. And she claims him on her taxes. Court does not care what you have to pay. They take what they feel the kid deserves off top....and then leaves you with what's left not caring if it covers your shit or not. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest 614Streets Posted February 28, 2008 Report Share Posted February 28, 2008 NWS , NWS. http://www.duuh.com/video/Baby_Mama_Drama-14/ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
baron_ Posted February 28, 2008 Report Share Posted February 28, 2008 lawyer, lawyer, lawyer as fast as possible delete! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dragknee66 Posted February 28, 2008 Report Share Posted February 28, 2008 Court does not care what you have to pay. They take what they feel the kid deserves off top....and then leaves you with what's left not caring if it covers your shit or not. Sad but true. Then before you know it, youre living with your parents again because they decided you were going to pay 1200 a month. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wease Posted February 28, 2008 Report Share Posted February 28, 2008 Reading shit like this reminds me why I'm so happy to be married. Fuck being single and having to worry about whores and STD's. Good luck getting this sorted out. +1 for a real lawyer... :nod: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SpaceGhost Posted February 28, 2008 Report Share Posted February 28, 2008 my mom got 200 a month from 1977 until 1993 and I didn't meet my dad until I was 14. then went to visit every summer for the next 4 years. The system is crazy now. Women can really make a good living off child support now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ShoMeSomeFun Posted February 28, 2008 Author Report Share Posted February 28, 2008 lawyer, lawyer, lawyer as fast as possible and take a copy of that agreement you signed You think that agreement would hold in court? It has witness signatures for both parties and notary on it. I have no problem having a child, just dealing with her is my issue. How do you get medical records for when she tried to kill herself? I would be one not to let a suicidal woman raise a child, especially since its not un-common for new-born mothers to develope postpartum depression. Ive always been under the impression, that men dont normally win child-custody cases. Thats why I settled with her out of court, seemed better for my kid not to agrue and just play stupid and go along with her demands. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
baron_ Posted February 28, 2008 Report Share Posted February 28, 2008 as a mere 3rd year law student, i'm not allowed to give you advice even though i worked in a family law office for a while Take the document to a lawyer that can represent you There are often certain formalities involved with documents like this (not saying there are or are not) delete! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dragknee66 Posted February 28, 2008 Report Share Posted February 28, 2008 If she tried to kill herself, chances are, theres a police report somewhere. You'll need to lawyer up though. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
baron_ Posted February 28, 2008 Report Share Posted February 28, 2008 If she tried to kill herself, chances are, theres a police report somewhere. You'll need to lawyer up though. Good point. Police reports are public information. Just go to the local records, or maybe even search online depending where it happened Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sciongirl Posted February 28, 2008 Report Share Posted February 28, 2008 this is why i should turn lesbo..... you guys have more drama...... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Putty Posted February 28, 2008 Report Share Posted February 28, 2008 as a mere 3rd year law student, i'm not allowed to give you advice even though i worked in a family law office for a while Why didn't you just give the advice? No one knew you were a law student until you mentioned it. this is why i should turn lesbo..... you guys have more drama...... Can I watch one day? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
baron_ Posted February 28, 2008 Report Share Posted February 28, 2008 this is why i should turn lesbo..... you guys have more drama...... I think we have it easy. Men have the ability to throw $$$ at a problem to make it go away. Women are basically stuck. No comparison between the drama of a baby daddy and baby momma. That girl's life is over. I'm seriously not allowed to say much more than 'get a lawyer' Noone is. (not just because of law school) They've criminalized "giving legal advice" when not licensed. The Bar wants its $$$$ and doesn't want normal people opening up law firms without having spent $200k on a legal education. Fockers. So, noone here is supposed to give much information...i just happen to be rather weary of that law Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wease Posted February 28, 2008 Report Share Posted February 28, 2008 this is why i should turn lesbo..... you guys have more drama...... Mmm, Diana as a lesbian... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ShoMeSomeFun Posted February 28, 2008 Author Report Share Posted February 28, 2008 If she tried to kill herself, chances are, theres a police report somewhere. You'll need to lawyer up though. Im not sure if cops were ever involved, i dont know if her family called emergency services for that situation, or took her straight to the hospital. If there is a report does a lawyer have to obtain it or am I able to get ahold of it. My girlfriend has lawyer in her family that deals with these situations, I have yet to talk to him though, waiting for him to call. She says that he handles cases all over Georgia, and that hes really good at what he does. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
baron_ Posted February 28, 2008 Report Share Posted February 28, 2008 Family law = state by state What's good in Georgia might not be good in Ohio might be similar...might not be Medical report: I sure hope hospitals wouldn't release PERSONAL information without a court order I don't want my/your/anyone's info that readily available Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ShoMeSomeFun Posted February 28, 2008 Author Report Share Posted February 28, 2008 Good point. Police reports are public information. Just go to the local records, or maybe even search online depending where it happened ^ Just saw this post thanks. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sciongirl Posted February 28, 2008 Report Share Posted February 28, 2008 Mmm, Diana as a lesbian... Can I watch one day? lol i knew i'd regret posting that... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wease Posted February 28, 2008 Report Share Posted February 28, 2008 lol i knew i'd regret posting that... I think I have some pics of you somewhere. I could have some Photochop fun with them now. Do you like top or bottom? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mr. Jones Posted February 28, 2008 Report Share Posted February 28, 2008 Thanks for furthering along the De-Evolution of man. Perhaps your new son can knock up 2 or perhaps 3 crazy chics. Ooh, maybe one of them will have twins! With any luck, he can get this done before graduating high school. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sciongirl Posted February 28, 2008 Report Share Posted February 28, 2008 I think I have some pics of you somewhere. I could have some Photochop fun with them now. Do you like top or bottom? see.. drama! lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
baron_ Posted February 28, 2008 Report Share Posted February 28, 2008 I think I have some pics of you somewhere. I could have some Photochop fun with them now. Do you like top or bottom? Haha. Post! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dragknee66 Posted February 28, 2008 Report Share Posted February 28, 2008 I have no luck with real lesbians. Grrr Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Putty Posted February 28, 2008 Report Share Posted February 28, 2008 Do you like top or bottom? Pitcher or catcher?? I have no luck with real lesbians. Grrr You dropped the ball that one time... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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