I don't use it as eharmony. That would mean I would be looking for dates on this site. I was asking for advice and someone wanted me to show a pic. Yes I know I suck at dressing up. She lived too far away for me and it cost too much. Thats why we did not work out. Dated for more then 6 months. Hit it off the first night we met. 2 hour drive is a long drive to see someone when ya have no money.