slingingchic

I see it this way, if you want custody of the kids you shouldn't get support. I had custody of my brother(long story) and neither parent paid support(even though they were supposed to) but it was my decision to take him in, why should I be paid? If I couldn't afford it I wouldn't of took him in.

This works for divorce aswell, if one parent wants the kid they shouldn't need support. I'd rather keep my kids and receive no support over not keeping them. Most the time child support is a scam anyhow, my uncle pays over $800 a month for support(for 1 kid) it doesn't take that much $$ per month to raise a kid. Hell I have 2 of my own under 2 and it's nowhere near that cost for even 2 of them.

Sure kids arn't cheap, but they arn't gunna break the bank either. It takes 2 people to have a kid and if neither is willing to accept responsibility for that child put it up for adoption and force the parents to get fixed. People are just greedy and it makes me sick, they expect shit to be handed to them, well man up and rely on yourself for a change.

I divorced 10 years ago, this is the first time I asked for child support, I thought of it as you. I want them, I can go without support. Situations change over time and it is needed now to help cover therapy costs for one of the kids, from the doings by his father that put us in this situation. 275 a month is not greedy for 2 kids, that's not even covering co-pays. I haven't gotten any support and I doubt I ever will. My current husband though, he pays out a ridiculous amount of money for 1 child while mother sits on ass in welfare housing collecting all kinds of benefits with her boyfriend.

cut his f**king balls off.

Haha!

At least he is working to pay the support he pays already.

I agree.... Maybe he should take on another job though and get snipped ;-), min wage isn't shit. My ex doesn't work at all, so he can't pay me child support and he gets all kinds of help from the state and churches. It encourages him to remain jobless and homeless (if you call living in a hotel homeless).

Still not sure.

Not sure of what you ride or if I'm your wife? You're dreaming.

Good luck on the bike hunt -- What kind of bike does your hubby ride?

Thanks, Triumph speed triple... You know him

welcome to OR, just north of you in Piqua. Have you taken the MSF course?

Thanks. Not yet, looking for course during the week to fit my work schedule since I can't do weekend course

Thanks, most likely it's going to be a CBR250

Getting ready to learn how to ride, no bike yet, I just get to look at the husbands bike sitting in the garage