Yeah it's tough to hear people when you're on the CRAL. My therapist asked why I'm all ADD and don't respond to questions consistently. I told that cunt to "shut it" before I fired her ass. She was all like "you can't fire me I don't want you as a patient anymore". I was like "Sorry what? I was marveling at my rank on the CR Awesome List."
“Here’s to long life and a merry one. A quick death and an easy one. A pretty girl and an honest one. A cold beer — and another one!”
Long live the OBAMIATA
I know from a past life how quickly an addict can go through that amount of cash. Trust me, between being a "friend" to others and treating himself it's feasible.
I wish you all the best and this guy the worst, really.
I am willing to bet you will find him completely fund-less. That money will never be seen again. I'm telling you this now so that you hold no hope in the future of recovering anything except satisfaction if you get something to "stick" in court.