Actually, that's not typical, just popularized and deemed acceptable by louder peices of shit.
After reading the first half of that, I lost all respect for you as a man, seriously. You got yourself into this shit, go on Maury and sort it out.
This should be stickeyed for everyone else to see. We all make mistakes, but god damn, you were begging for this.
This seriously reads like "Guys, I licked my brake rotors after my commute today, what do I do? DONT YOU JUDGE ME OMG!" Please realize that you are getting shit because you are part of the problem, as much as your babies mama is. I fear for your child, probably more that you do.