I love my XD9, but I also loved my sig, glock, brother/trents Hk, S&W, STI, Kimber, Ruger. I spent over 1k on my TRP tactical 1911 and it was an amazing gun. Well worth the money to me. If you want something for range shooting just stick with a 9mm. All these people talk in the world about whats better, 9mm, 10mm, .40, .44, .45, .50 it all doesnt matter when you put 2 in the chest.
Just a thought go to two or three ranges like Ohio Valley in lancaster, New Albany in New albany, powder room and shoot what they have. Best way to see what you will like.