I would have to agree wth a lot of people on here. Relationships take a lot of work.. many times you find yourself being the one always trying to communicate, always being the one not allowed to do anything and always trying to please the other person. I think that it takes communication on both parts, being able to respect each others space and time and sharing same interests or not so common interests.
What drives me crazy is the people who cant go one night without being aroun the other person... its like I wanna say " Are you that boring that you can't find one thing to do on your own.. that you have to worry that I dont care anymore." wtf! lol
Finding someone who likes what you like, who is kind, respectful and open of what they want and all that happy stuff is great. People who dont talk and dont care about anyone but themselves are the ones who will probably never have a good or long relationship. Moral of the post.. You shouldnt have to "ask" what you are or are not allowed to do you should be able to make each other happy and respect when the other likes doing different things. :-) You make the other person happy they make you happy.. end of story.