I got the 10mm and carry it 90% of the time. I like the gun a lot. There isn't as much recoil as people bitch about. If I were to buy it again I would buy the SF (slim frame). Because the 10mm double stack is wide. I don't mine it but if I could change it I would. But Tyler ur a bigger Guy so the normal one might fit u better.
Fully loaded its just a little heavier than my m&p40. Oh and go with the night sights