This is all that really needs to be said for good parents. Money does not equal good parents. If it did, we would be talking about inner city school mass shootings, not conservative white boys in the suburbs.
Considering the current housing market (out of an individual's control), and low wage increases (Yes, some of that can be in the individual's control but is situational dependent) that's not blaming everybody else, that's just life. Moving isn't always an option.