I'll break this down into a two part response.
1. When I come out to home depot, I'm there to socialize. I don't go out and do stupid shit every weekend like some of the other people up there. When I'm out my kids are at home, safe in bed, with a babysitter, so don't even try to make implications as to what type of parent I am, as there's plenty of other parents that do the same shit.
2. Maybe if I was as unhappy in my life as you are, I wouldn't go out. Maybe I'd just do what you do, sit around and get wasted and try to forget my life sucks. Maybe I'd pick on young parents on a local racing forum to try to feel better about my reckless pathetic lifestyle. I feel fortunate I'm not in your current state, I love my kids, I love my life, so I guess you could say you're right. I'm pretty much the man.