This happened to me too when I got my bike... My cousin emailed me with a list of things that made him wonder if i was a les. His biggest reason were that I ride a motorcycle, olympic weight lift (as he pointed out my arms were bigger then his... grr...), and fly airplanes. I think he is just jealous that he is about to marry a pretty high maintenance, incompetant, girly girl with zero character outside of her luis bags and tiffanys jewelry.. ugh. I wouldn't worry about that girl.. sounds like she is just jealous. Oh and about the vibrations... hmmm....... all i have to say about that is CR85R FTW!!!