SchmuckGirl Posted November 13, 2008 Report Share Posted November 13, 2008 Thanks for posting! Micheal (zerocrash) and I were discussing this on the phone again today and we were kinda suprised that nobody else was really wanting to give some input here. I know the fellas AND ladies have opinions. I put my buisness out there for a reason. I can handle a**holes like this but I think many women are very naive about men and their intentions....and vise versa. I agree that the first one probably had poor intentions towards me and that's the vibe that I picked up on the first time we went out. That's why I did a search once I was home (he never got a return call...hehe). The second one...well we had mutual acquaintences and everyone that knows me knows no booty will be given from this gal! Anyhoo, thanks all who did give their opinion! I know these r girly discussions but I luv them!!! I didn't give much input b/c I feel like we already covered this subject in your 'Why does he only text me' thread.Besides, I'm lucky enough to have found a great guy so I don't really have any current feedback for the dating scene..... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SchmuckGirl Posted November 13, 2008 Report Share Posted November 13, 2008 I agree with this as well Justin. I have a lot of female friends and some of the shit I hear guys say and do to them is stunning. But what's even more stunning is that they will continue to see said guys.. Low self esteem? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kawi kid Posted November 13, 2008 Report Share Posted November 13, 2008 I agree with this as well Justin. I have a lot of female friends and some of the shit I hear guys say and do to them is stunning. But what's even more stunning is that they will continue to see said guys.. agreed!!! do you know how may times i have sat and talked with friends that are girls and they sit there and say why cant i just find a good guy. my honest response is to them that every nice guy that comes dont ever get a chance. they would rather be treated like dirt by the "bad boy" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mandova Posted November 13, 2008 Report Share Posted November 13, 2008 (edited) I don't want to start trouble. I will just mention that I have had three internet relationships. Two of the guys I got involved with. Both of them were about getting sex without a price basically. The one guy I flew out to the west coast to spend a week with. I was only 19yrs old. He wanted to keep the relationship going. I had to end it. So my opinion on this subject is ruined. I think internet, myspace, facebook, and instant mesgr are great communication tools, but poor relationship avenues. I have been burnt pretty badly. The funny thing is, I knew better.Live and learn girls. It happens to the best of us. I DID NOT meet my husband thru anything internet related. It's better one on one. A man has a harder time lying to your face. Edited November 13, 2008 by Mandova Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
redbarron77 Posted November 13, 2008 Report Share Posted November 13, 2008 .... The one guy I flew out to the west coast to spend a week with. I was only 19yrs old. He wanted to keep the relationship going. I had to end it.....You flew HIM out????? I thought I had it rough when I had to buy dinner and a movie.........I must be from a completely different generation....... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mandova Posted November 13, 2008 Report Share Posted November 13, 2008 No, I flew myself out to be with him in CA. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kawi kid Posted November 13, 2008 Report Share Posted November 13, 2008 You flew HIM out????? I thought I had it rough when I had to buy dinner and a movie.........I must be from a completely different generation.......dinner and a movie now run you about 50 bucks Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mandova Posted November 13, 2008 Report Share Posted November 13, 2008 You flew HIM out????? I thought I had it rough when I had to buy dinner and a movie.........I must be from a completely different generation.......He did all the buying. I just did the flying. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mandova Posted November 13, 2008 Report Share Posted November 13, 2008 dinner and a movie now run you about 50 bucks Better demote your dates to the dollar theater and NO POPCORN! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zerocrash Posted November 13, 2008 Author Report Share Posted November 13, 2008 dinner and a movie now run you about 50 bucks 50??? Where you going, Mickey D's?? More like 80-100 bones anytime I take someone out. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kawi kid Posted November 13, 2008 Report Share Posted November 13, 2008 50??? Where you going, Mickey D's?? More like 80-100 bones anytime I take someone out.yea i was being generous when i posted that cuz when i hit reply i was like wait. its way more than that for me to just go out drinking alone Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zerocrash Posted November 13, 2008 Author Report Share Posted November 13, 2008 yea i was being generous when i posted that cuz when i hit reply i was like wait. its way more than that for me to just go out drinking alone Yep $50 barely covers a dateless night at the local dive bar!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cmoosego Posted November 13, 2008 Report Share Posted November 13, 2008 Yep $50 barely covers a dateless night at the local dive bar!!! holy cow I can get blitzed on 20 bucks at my bar....... helps that top shelf is only 3.75 a drink..... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kawi kid Posted November 13, 2008 Report Share Posted November 13, 2008 holy cow I can get blitzed on 20 bucks at my bar....... helps that top shelf is only 3.75 a drink.....it dont help when me and cdubya put away 18 pitchers of beer. and that i a tru story i hope he sees this and backs me up!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cmoosego Posted November 13, 2008 Report Share Posted November 13, 2008 it dont help when me and cdubya put away 18 pitchers of beer. and that i a tru story i hope he sees this and backs me up!!hell that sounds like a good night out!!!:drink: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PrincessPratt Posted November 13, 2008 Report Share Posted November 13, 2008 (edited) I don't want to start trouble. I will just mention that I have had three internet relationships. Two of the guys I got involved with. Both of them were about getting sex without a price basically. The one guy I flew out to the west coast to spend a week with. I was only 19yrs old. He wanted to keep the relationship going. I had to end it. So my opinion on this subject is ruined. I think internet, myspace, facebook, and instant mesgr are great communication tools, but poor relationship avenues. I have been burnt pretty badly. The funny thing is, I knew better.Live and learn girls. It happens to the best of us. I DID NOT meet my husband thru anything internet related. It's better one on one. A man has a harder time lying to your face.It doesn't work for everyone BUT my brother met his wife who happened to live in maumee (we are from genoa which is just east of Toledo and Maumee) while he was in IRAQ serving our country. They were in a Toledo chat room together and she didn't believe he was in Iraq until he turned on his webcam. hehe. Now 4 years later they have 2 beautiful children and are happily married moving around the country from city to city (he's in the coast guard now...moved to homeland security). Now I do have to admit that they talked for 9 months b/f he got home and the first day he got in town they did sleep together but my brother was already in love with her. She got pregnant 6 months later and got married after my little hunter bug was born. Although NOBODY in my family likes her they are very happy together. "Some" internet relationships do work out. It's a woman's fault for a guy having the ability to make it "all" sexual if she gives it up the first or second time they are together. It worked for my sister in law but my brother is and has always been a relationship oriented guy. He's always been honorable and NEVER cheated on a girl even when they treated him like crap. Just my opinion anyway. And FYI...I didn't meet either of those idiots online. I meet them in person. Edited November 13, 2008 by PrincessPratt Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PrincessPratt Posted November 13, 2008 Report Share Posted November 13, 2008 50??? Where you going, Mickey D's?? More like 80-100 bones anytime I take someone out.AMEN Micheal. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kawi kid Posted November 13, 2008 Report Share Posted November 13, 2008 AMEN Micheal.hey i already explained myself!!!:mad: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zerocrash Posted November 13, 2008 Author Report Share Posted November 13, 2008 hey i already explained myself!!!:mad:Sure... CHEAP ASSSSS!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PrincessPratt Posted November 13, 2008 Report Share Posted November 13, 2008 hey i already explained myself!!!:mad:Just yankin ur chain!!!:D Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kawi kid Posted November 13, 2008 Report Share Posted November 13, 2008 screw you guys im outta here Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wolfman Posted November 13, 2008 Report Share Posted November 13, 2008 I guess what I need to be able to realize is that others have different boundaries than I do. I am a VERY open person. I don't really have secrets & what u see is what u get. When others are more secretive I get VERY uncomfortable around them. +1 I really don't have any personal boundaries when I'm dating a person. I don't care if they go through my shit, check my email, check text messages, etc....I don't have anything to hide. I forget that most people are not the same way and need their own personal/private space and sometimes mistake their need for some privacy as being secretive/hiding something. Something I guess I need to work on! I agree with most everything said on here. I think those guys were probably being dishonest to hide something. The one probably didn't want you calling him out for being a cheater!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
max power Posted November 14, 2008 Report Share Posted November 14, 2008 How is he being a cheater if they just went on one date? Does this mean he is now not allowed to date other women??? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SchmuckGirl Posted November 14, 2008 Report Share Posted November 14, 2008 How is he being a cheater if they just went on one date? Does this mean he is now not allowed to date other women???Uh oh! Aren't you also the one who said that women are only out to get a ring?! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
max power Posted November 14, 2008 Report Share Posted November 14, 2008 UM, no. I just said he might not want her up in his business at this early juncture. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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