ShankroidBeast Posted February 28, 2008 Report Share Posted February 28, 2008 There really no point chastising this guy after the fact. I feel for you bro. That is one huge cluster-fuck you got there. And to think you have to deal with her and her crazy family for the next 18 or so years, my heart really goes out to you. But everyone is right. Get a lawyer and fast. Get the legal system involved and you will be able to see your kid. She has already shown that she is unstable, and it shouldn't be hard to get more evidence along the way. DOCUMENT EVERYTHING FROM NOW ON!!!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ShoMeSomeFun Posted February 28, 2008 Author Report Share Posted February 28, 2008 There really no point chastising this guy after the fact. I feel for you bro. That is one huge cluster-fuck you got there. And to think you have to deal with her and her crazy family for the next 18 or so years, my heart really goes out to you. But everyone is right. Get a lawyer and fast. Get the legal system involved and you will be able to see your kid. She has already shown that she is unstable, and it shouldn't be hard to get more evidence along the way. DOCUMENT EVERYTHING FROM NOW ON!!!!!! Appreciate that, I have all text messages saved anything that she said that could comprimise her image is saved, all emails, I have copies off all payments of child support made to her, I have receipts for all of my sons items. I even have a calander of what dates I've had him, what days I went to pick him up and what days she drop him off and go out. Ive documented almost everything, everything has mine and someone else's signature on it. I honestly cant say I didnt see this coming thats why Ive documented and made copies most things. I guess I was just hoping things wouldnt turn sour. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
baron_ Posted February 28, 2008 Report Share Posted February 28, 2008 and on the same note: at least this is one of the few guys that's actually stepping up and doing the right thing, more or less - regardless of what happened previously. I have another buddy in the exact same situation. The girl has 7 possible guys and hasn't done a DNA test on any of them (yet). He thinks it's probably his, but who knows! While this guy is taking an active role and paying support, my other friend is more or less running from the situation! (while 4 of the guys are paying some sort of support) And to hit on a previous comment. Yes, the situation with baby momma's is ridiculous. After having seen a lot of cases...it's ridiculous where some women set out to have kids with at least 3 different daddys (4 is better). That seems to be the threshold...3 different support checks coming in at once ensures the woman can sit on her ass and just take care of the children all day long while getting medical support/other benefits from the government. With men so scared of going to court, these women can extort rather large amounts (more or less under the table) while also getting welfare/food stamps/medical benefits from the gov't eg: Pulling out the paper at the turn of the new year...all 3 local towns around me had single mommas smiling over their kid that was the first baby of the new year. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skinner Posted February 28, 2008 Report Share Posted February 28, 2008 I have no luck with real lesbians. Grrr thats a shame I have twins and lesbians over at the house all the time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ShankroidBeast Posted February 28, 2008 Report Share Posted February 28, 2008 Man, talk about a life altering event. I can't stop thinking about it. Hate to say it, but it does make me feel better about my life. Man, you dip you wick in the wrong duck sauce these days and you can get AIDS, STD's and with all the crazy fertile chicks out there looking for a hand-out, us single guys have got to play it safe. I know this has been a good wake up call for me. But then again, if I'm ever in doubt, I wrap up my one-eyed guided heat seeking moisture missile of love in the finest latex Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HotCarl Posted February 28, 2008 Report Share Posted February 28, 2008 And to think a $.50 cent condom could've saved you the hassle? I feel for you, Ive done the drunk dial that leads to the drunk hook up but I've always remembered the jimmy hat before the dead is done. Sounds like the 'crazy bitch' gene runs in her family. I know other people have said it but you keep asking questions. The only answer to all your questions are, GET A LAWYER!!!!! A family lawyer in Georgia wont know anything pertaining to Ohio law or your case. Get a GOOD lawyer, keep him on retainer, pay him in payments do whatever the fuck you have to do but get a damn lawyer. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FormulaMatt Posted February 28, 2008 Report Share Posted February 28, 2008 I havent seen my kid in two weeks, one of the reasons being I cant get along with her mother, so she wont let me, but in her emails she sends to her friends Im a piece of shit because I wont come see him. Seriously, get over it. Step up and either fake getting along or just try and be cordial until you get the legal stuff worked out. Id much rather take some hits and lower my self pride than not see my kid. Good luck. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
87GT Posted February 28, 2008 Report Share Posted February 28, 2008 You know butt sex is so worth it. 30 minutes of pain is better then 9 months of being pregnant. And shit wear a damn condom. I can help you out if you need a few. I buy them 100 or more at a time. This story would have been so much better if it ending saying "Now I have aids". I know I am an ass. You will get nothing but shit if you ask my personal opinion on this situation. Go get your balls snipped if you want to sleep with random girls from bars. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ShankroidBeast Posted February 28, 2008 Report Share Posted February 28, 2008 Seriously, get over it. Step up and either fake getting along or just try and be cordial until you get the legal stuff worked out. Id much rather take some hits and lower my self pride than not see my kid. Good luck. FormulaMatt is absolutely right. Hell if it was down to seeing my kid or not I'd give Rosie O'Donnell a rim job. I just had the most disgusting wave of nausea come over me :barf: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HotCarl Posted February 28, 2008 Report Share Posted February 28, 2008 You know butt sex is so worth it. 30 minutes of pain is better then 9 months of being pregnant. And shit wear a damn condom. I can help you out if you need a few. I buy them 100 or more at a time. This story would have been so much better if it ending saying "Now I have aids". I know I am an ass. You will get nothing but shit if you ask my personal opinion on this situation. Go get your balls snipped if you want to sleep with random girls from bars. Damn, thats harsh. Then again if your having butt sex your DEFINITLY going to remember a rubber. So he has a point. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
87GT Posted February 28, 2008 Report Share Posted February 28, 2008 Damn, thats harsh. Then again if your having butt sex your DEFINITLY going to remember a rubber. So he has a point. You should never "forget" a condom. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HotCarl Posted February 28, 2008 Report Share Posted February 28, 2008 You should never "forget" a condom. Your preaching to the choir Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
schmuckingham Posted February 28, 2008 Report Share Posted February 28, 2008 Dude good luck, i am so glad my ex is in another state so i dont have to watch this type of drama fest go on. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Putty Posted February 28, 2008 Report Share Posted February 28, 2008 You should never "forget" a condom. My buddy wears them all the time, but he cuts the tip off..... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
87GT Posted February 28, 2008 Report Share Posted February 28, 2008 My buddy wears them all the time, but he cuts the tip off..... It is better if you take a safety pin and poke holes in it before you open it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Putty Posted February 28, 2008 Report Share Posted February 28, 2008 It is better if you take a safety pin and poke holes in it before you open it. I've done that...LMAO! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
87GT Posted February 28, 2008 Report Share Posted February 28, 2008 I've done that...LMAO! I don't know what to say to that... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Putty Posted February 28, 2008 Report Share Posted February 28, 2008 I don't know what to say to that... I wasn't proud of myself.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HotCarl Posted February 28, 2008 Report Share Posted February 28, 2008 My buddy wears them all the time, but he cuts the tip off..... What the fuck is the point? No feeling but all the risk in the world?!?!?! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
87GT Posted February 28, 2008 Report Share Posted February 28, 2008 What the fuck is the point? No feeling but all the risk in the world?!?!?! He must of been dropped on his head when he was a child. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Putty Posted February 28, 2008 Report Share Posted February 28, 2008 He must of been dropped on his head when he was a child. Don't make fun of my pal. He's a NBK. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HotCarl Posted February 29, 2008 Report Share Posted February 29, 2008 He's a NBK. Engrish? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Putty Posted February 29, 2008 Report Share Posted February 29, 2008 Engrish? Natural born killer Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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