yea, the older you get the harder to find that person i think. But then again, there are the one and two in the whole city that is good. you have to be careful on who you meet nowadays. Best thing is not to look and just meet and think of everyone you meet as friends and get to know them first then if it happens, it happens. The time will eventually come. But dont wait for it or it will just take even longer. Thats my opinion.