I need advice. I have a 42 yr old girlfriend who has 2 kids and i have none. I am 32 and have been raising 2 boys like they are my own for about 7 years. We have been rocky now for about 1yr now and our relationship has reached the breaking point. We never see each other at all unless it is saturday and sunday, and hell we hardly see each other then. I do everything by myself,go everywhere by myself. I have in the past tried to take her out to eat, movie, mall, walk in the park, etc. etc... She just likes to stay home and do absolutely nothing at all other than clean the house and play with the dogs. I have talked to her about the way i felt and nothing has changed. In the past 2 years i have finally had enough cash to get back into drag racing, which i had a drag car before we met ,that i sold do to needing money about 6 years ago. When i bought my camaro she was fully aware of what i planned to do with it and she was fine with that. So like a good boy friend i bought her a 2002 lexus is300 that she liked and wanted. It needed repaired a little from a front end collision. So i bought another full lexus is300 to fix the other one, because it was cheaper to buy the whole other parts car than it would be to buy a front clip for the car. I sold alot of the parts that i didnt need to fix up my camaro and to buy little stuff here and there for the is300. I have stopped all work on the is300 due to the crying and complaining. Well i finally got my camaro running decent and painted and all that good stuff,then someone fucking keyed my car. So needless to say i got a pretty good check from the insurance and i bought myself a bike and her son a dirt bike. I knew how much he wanted one so that is why i bought it for him. Well i got totally bitched out for buying both bikes. So at this point i have thrown my hands up and am fed up with the whole thing. Im pretty much by myself so why dont i just leave and be by myself. I find myself constantly looking at other couples while im out wishing that i could have that. I believe the age gap of 9 ish years is really starting to become a huge factor in my life. I really do nothing at all. I feel like a old man already at 32. Any advice and what i should do? should i leave or stay? I really want to leave we already live our seperate lives now anyways. Advice pleas?