Yes...
Now I can't help a ton with this Dover due to being back in school but here are my thoughts.
- Keep it simple, there are more flakes than people will show.
- Do it at some place that serves food and has a party room.
- See if they give the option of bringing your own stuff, or providing food for a good price.
- Pick something and stay the course
- You will never make everybody happy, if they don't like the plans they dont have to show.