Yeah sorry if it looks like I was blaming someone, and really with incidents like these there is no one to blame, and we shouldn't look for someone to blame either. It's really about reflecting, and I was merely suggesting that we should all reflect on a few things, and perhaps just have that moment of silence. It's surreal to think that you or I can impact ones life, but it's true and I think it's something many of us (Including Myself) often take for granted. In life as with everything it's more about the reaction I feel rather then the actual action of any particular event. It's what defines you as a person and what will ultimately remain. A good example of what I mean exactly would be if you've been wronged, how are you going to respond to it? And often those are the final words or final actions and we won't even realize it.