+1 Highly intoxicated, behind closed doors of course. (when you are not behind closed doors you do stupid stuff... at the bottom) Short story. I went out with a girl for 5yrs stuck by her through everything and vice versa. I was in college for 2 of those years she was in H.S. one year and college the next. It was OK for me to stick by her in College but when she got there it was a different story... Go figure. I got a job as a medic/FF and she continued with her schooling. Couple years go by and I am doing great! Took overtime shifts as I could find them and worked at two other firehouses along the way, when time permitted. I head great friends and family. My brother and I fished semi-proffessionally. I had no spare time to put thought toward. One day she shows up on the door step. Wants to talk. Wants to know why I never came to talk to her. As I am standing at the door talking to her the floozy in my bedroom comes walking out with one of my t shirts on and nothing else and walks past the door. She goes into defense mode, wants to know who that was and what was going on like we had been together all this time. I looked at her kind of funny, chuckled and slammed the door in her face. The reason we broke up, she said was becuase I needed to grow up and make some life altering changes... This came from a PHD licesed phsycology major. Uh huh! Dude find the time to do things for yourself now! Make yourself happy! No one else (well except for your daughter)! Put forth the extra efforts now where needed in your life. People pay attention to that stuff. ...the bad side to this story... I kicked the floozy to the curb to have one more night in the sack with the Doc. the following night yeah I used to be a dog when I was a Medic/FF