I've drove all. Picking up these trucks from the dealer ect for my old job.
Ecoboost- power was great. Very responsive. Loaded crew fx4 would be my choice. I had no complaints.
Dodge- gauge cluster looks nice. That's about the only thing I liked. Although it did ride nice, have ample power. And interior was nice.
Chevy- nice truck. I'm not a Chevy fan to start off with but overall the truck was much better the previous body style. Did have some major blind spots and the 5.3 I think is under powered for it
Toyota- pig of a truck. Throttle response is not there. I think the interior of the truck is just cheap looking.
Again though. Just my opinion.
Out of all there hasn't been a Eco boost that has disappointed me. I've never expericed the lag mode and I've drove well over 100 different ones. Gas millige I have seen people complain. But I took one for 90 mile round trip. Picked up with 3 miles on it. Cluster display showed 20.3 mpg average.
Someday ill buy a crew cab Eco boost. Either way can't go wrong with any if the trucks mentioned. Just depends on your preference. Out of your choices I'd say the Chevy will be your best bet. But i think you should go give the Eco boost a chance.