I got a vasectomy I found out our second son had Autism. Until you deal with a child day in and day out that has Autism, don't tell me how it is. I (we) did not want to take the chance at having a second child with autism. That would just drive us into the wall. Mine was $60 after two visits. one for a talk to about and stuff, and the second for the actual procedure.
Everyone has their own reasons and it's up to each person/family to decide.
As for the Pill for men. I'd would have taken it WAY back in the day... like 10 years ago. Not now as it's not needed .