So yeah if you remember my Dad had fallen last March and had a stroke. Bleeding in the brain, etc. He's had parkinsons for the past 7-8 years now. He hasn't really moved much since March (well, hasn't walked). Body function is almost gone. You look at him and it's a blank stare. Right now he's in a nursing facility in Westerville for the past 5-6 months. His body weight dropped from 240 to 170 and all of that is muscle loss.
The end is nearing my mom said in the past two weeks he's been sleeping a LOT and is very tired. She said that's one of the signs to tell when the end is nearing for people with parkinsons.
Today hospice was asking my mom when he goes where will he be buried and which funeral home and stuff. Suck.
76 years old. Not sure how long he will last. My brother hasn't seen him in a few years and is coming in from NY tomorrow or Saturday. I'm afraid after my Dad seems him that will be the last thing he wants and will just go to sleep and not wake up.
I can't say that we haven't seen this coming. We thought back in March he would be gone. But he's still going.
On the flip side, my grandmother (moms mom) is 91 years old and her brain is perfect. Still is awesome and has a sense of humor but her body is shutting down. Just getting up there in age. This will be the double whammy if both of them go in the next few months.
I'm not saying I'm going into depression as I've known this is a long time coming but you are never prepared for when it WILL happen.
You don't need to say a prayer or anything. I don't pray and I don't expect you to. I haven't had to deal with a death in my immediate family (well my father in-law 4 years ago) since I was 14 and my brother died and I was too young then to realize what was going on.
I just wanted to ramble on. Raise your glass and have one on me.