dude I think you are getting fucked by her money wise...Ohio goes by a formula so you should be able to key the figures in and see waht you would pay etc.. also if you get a lawyer you get them to hire a pyschtrist(sp) to do a mental/parental evaluation that can be used in court, btw be prepared to pay 2-5k for this. Also, they normally rotated each year who can claim the child on the taxes.