Thanks for the opinions and I am going to look more closely at few of the models that have been mentioned that I havent looked at. Namely the M45/G35x and Volvo.
Out of those cars I drove, the new CTS AWD and it is the clear winner. Although I agree it is hard to find used....which is why Ive only been looking at new. However the dealer is offering some pretty inticing pricing until 11/2. They were going to give me 1.2k more for my car than any other estimate, lowered the price of the car 2.5k below msrp, and have 0% financing for 72 months. This is all before I shot back an offer...this is the initial offer.
The Nav system was great to use and I really like how it would hide away once the car was off. The interior was the best of the bunch, just plain awesome. And its got 100 hp more than the IS 250 and "felt" like the quickest of the bunch. The styling is great! Car has great lines. And if I didnt live somewhere that I needed AWD the new V would be sitting at my place already.