I do agree with most everything said , I would not spend a dime to try to get back at him, id spend it on yourself and kid . Get all the legal stuff situated with her first, then go on with your life, just like hotcarl said if you ever seen him face to face then that would be understandable maybe find out what bar he is at or party then go in with a ninja suit and smash his teeth in his mouth, then dissapear....... If you press on trying to get him in trouble its not really going to affect him much, kentstate is also in the army so he knows what we are talking about, this shit goes on like no other.......But look on the bright side of things aleast you know about it and everything is out there now, aleast you can look at it , and heal from this . Karma is really a bitch and will get the best of them one day, maybe not right now, but it will and all you will prolly have to do is sit back and watch. By that time you will be all over this, have a much hotter girlfriend with bigger tits. She will prolly get all emo when this guy fucks her over and she will be calling you wishing she never even made the mistake, with the whole sob story and all you have to do hang up the phone crack open a cold one and make fun of her with your friends.