Hey guys thanks for the thoughtful posts. I appreciate reading everyone's replies.
My dads situation is not good. We have several opinions and even from mayo clinic. His cancer has metastasized in his body. Started in pancreas and now in colon, liver, stomach, lymph nodes and pancreas. Luckily it hasn't hit lungs or brain yet. He has zero energy. Has about 2/3 good hours a day. He also lives in Florida so this is even tougher. I'm flying down in a week to spend time with him and then hoping to fly him up here for Christmas depending on how he is doing.
If you aren't aware pancreatic cancer is literally the worst cancer. There isn't really a survival rate with it. The only hope is catching it at stage 1 and if it can be surgically removed. His is t able to be surgically removed and it's spread to far in his system at this point.