Then why the fuck would you post that you would hit her? Your changing your tune-and I think you should. Unless the chic was 6-2, 220, and used to be a guy, there is NO situation where you should hit her. Ever.
I have had to retrain chics before-chics that were "swinging" on me, but putting some piece of trailer trash in an armbar, is not jacking one in the face. Trust me-Im no feminist. if I was, I would not be newly single.