Lauren Posted June 1, 2017 Report Share Posted June 1, 2017 Any of you guys gotten divorced a s had kids or a shared business? Need advice. I can't stand my wife and its getting extremely toxic. What's the hardest part of leaving? How did you deal with still seeing your children, I know mg cunt of a wife will use them against me. Lastly any good divorce attorneys you can recommend? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Green Bastard Posted June 1, 2017 Report Share Posted June 1, 2017 I don't have any real advise, but I do wish you luck. It would be extremely tough to have your children used against you in a situation like this (for them too), they don't deserve to be put in the middle or used as leverage. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BStowers023 Posted June 1, 2017 Report Share Posted June 1, 2017 Damn, sorry to hear man... Maybe try these guys? http://cordellcordell.com/offices/ohio/columbus/?matchType=b&provider=google_mobile&keyphrase=cordell+cordell&lid=6598827631&creativeId=175118258853&ad=6962862853&bc=3747424246 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
downingracing Posted June 1, 2017 Report Share Posted June 1, 2017 Get a great attorney! You will pay through the nose, but upfront cost will save you years of cost and pain down the road. I've got several friends who are divorced with kids and from all their stories - that is the best advice you can get. Sorry for your situation - good luck!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
-Alex- Posted June 1, 2017 Report Share Posted June 1, 2017 Yikes. You get a lot of shit on here and handle it well for the most part, but I hate to hear this on top of your dad's health and wish you the best. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
coleyounger3 Posted June 1, 2017 Report Share Posted June 1, 2017 Cordell &Cordell it still sucks being a part time dad.you are goi g to get raped in court. My advice is hang in there until you can Hide your assets,cars,money been there done that.i pay $944 month child support Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lauren Posted June 1, 2017 Author Report Share Posted June 1, 2017 Assets are hidden in an LLC and large chunk of cash is with my family in a trust. The biggest thing is not being able to wake up everyday to see my girls. Those girls are my life. Money and objects come and go but being a dad and seeing my girls means the most to me Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
2 Sweet Posted June 1, 2017 Report Share Posted June 1, 2017 Sorry to hear, brother. Good luck. I wish you the best Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
coleyounger3 Posted June 1, 2017 Report Share Posted June 1, 2017 I agree with you the kids are most important.you can fight for custody,shared parenting. If a divorce is necessary and the only way.my advice is be civil and try to work out all the details you can.but believe me the gloves come off in a divorce. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zx2guy19 Posted June 1, 2017 Report Share Posted June 1, 2017 Sorry to hear that man, I just finalized mine in February but with no kids, it was quite simple. One piece of advice: watch what you say on here. In the first page, you've called her a cunt and disclosed where things are hidden. A good attorney will find that. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Versluis Posted June 1, 2017 Report Share Posted June 1, 2017 Gregg Lewis is who I know of. Never been through this but he has been doing it awhile and also a car guy if that matters http://grlfamilylaw.com/attorney-profile/ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dharris89 Posted June 1, 2017 Report Share Posted June 1, 2017 That really stinks. I don't really know you but I was an attempt to save a doomed marriage. It really sucked to go through as a kid. From a dads standpoint just watch what you say about your wife to your kids. Yell and scream other places. Make sure they know it's not their fault and no matter what that you love them. Even if your wife tries to turn them against you, don't retaliate and be honest. Good luck Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BloodRed Posted June 1, 2017 Report Share Posted June 1, 2017 Sucks to hear. Friend of mine has been in family law since he passed the bar and is now a partner. http://barrjoneslegal.com/ He is the Jones in the firm name. Never had to use him for divorce, but several of my other friends have. He helped us out when we tried to adopt a child a few years back. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AngryBMW Posted June 1, 2017 Report Share Posted June 1, 2017 Any of you guys gotten divorced a s had kids or a shared business? Need advice. I can't stand my wife and its getting extremely toxic. What's the hardest part of leaving? How did you deal with still seeing your children, I know mg cunt of a wife will use them against me. Lastly any good divorce attorneys you can recommend? Sorry to hear it. I would suggest calling Colin Beach with Walker Novak Legal group. Great attorneys and great guys. Colin's cell is 937-524-9355...tell him Marc Stock sent you. Good luck. -Marc Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Geeesammy Posted June 1, 2017 Report Share Posted June 1, 2017 First step is getting this thread deleted ya spud. Her attorney getting ahold of this would be great for you..... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
87GT Posted June 1, 2017 Report Share Posted June 1, 2017 Colin Beach is a great guy. I've used his services before but not for a divorce. He did mention he was working a divorce case when I was in his office. Give him a call. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HotCarl Posted June 1, 2017 Report Share Posted June 1, 2017 Sorry to hear that man, not to intrude or get personal but any way you could do counseling and try and work it out? Might be able to avoid a lot of drama and heartache in the long run. Either way, goodluck man. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Green Bastard Posted June 1, 2017 Report Share Posted June 1, 2017 Sucks to hear. Friend of mine has been in family law since he passed the bar and is now a partner. http://barrjoneslegal.com/ He is the Jones in the firm name. Never had to use him for divorce, but several of my other friends have. He helped us out when we tried to adopt a child a few years back. We also used him as an adoption lawyer (at your refrence as a matter of fact, thank you). He was very good for us and made the process as easy as possible. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ODoyle Posted June 1, 2017 Report Share Posted June 1, 2017 Assets are hidden in an LLC and large chunk of cash is with my family in a trust. The biggest thing is not being able to wake up everyday to see my girls. Those girls are my life. Money and objects come and go but being a dad and seeing my girls means the most to me Then I suggest you suck it the fuck up. Make it work till they are 18 then kick their mom to the curb. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dammit Charlie Posted June 1, 2017 Report Share Posted June 1, 2017 Then I suggest you suck it the fuck up. Make it work till they are 18 then kick their mom to the curb. This, sadly. Your kids needs out way yours now bud. Be smart about what you do and say, and if she screws up BAM- talk to an attorney then. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gergwheel1647545492 Posted June 1, 2017 Report Share Posted June 1, 2017 Money and objects come and go but being a dad and seeing my girls means the most to me If this were actually true then you wouldn't be talking about a divorce. Suck it up for your girls and deal with the crazy that is their mother. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fiji ST Posted June 1, 2017 Report Share Posted June 1, 2017 Then I suggest you suck it the fuck up. Make it work till they are 18 then kick their mom to the curb. This, sadly. Your kids needs out way yours now bud. Be smart about what you do and say, and if she screws up BAM- talk to an attorney then. If this were actually true then you wouldn't be talking about a divorce. Suck it up for your girls and deal with the crazy that is their mother. I had to deal with this growing up and I wouldn't recommend it for your kids' sake. The daily arguments, the hate between the two and the inevitable affair made my teenage years fucking awful. If you can fix it with counseling or something, try everything you can. If not, get out and make sure your kids know you love them everyday. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smokin5s Posted June 1, 2017 Report Share Posted June 1, 2017 every lawyer I spoke too said to prepare to bend over and take it. Women get what they want and it's really hard to even get shared custody even if you can prove she's unfit. Ohio is a state that sides with the mother and they will take most of your paycheck.... it's absolute bullshit but it's the way it is. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BStowers023 Posted June 1, 2017 Report Share Posted June 1, 2017 every lawyer I spoke too said to prepare to bend over and take it. Women get what they want and it's really hard to even get shared custody even if you can prove she's unfit. Ohio is a state that sides with the mother and they will take most of your paycheck.... it's absolute bullshit but it's the way it is. #GenderEquality Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
caseyctsv Posted June 1, 2017 Report Share Posted June 1, 2017 If this were actually true then you wouldn't be talking about a divorce. Suck it up for your girls and deal with the crazy that is their mother. This. You gave a vow to stand by her "for better or worse, until death do you part". I don't understand why people see marriages as disposable these days. Work it out. Good luck to you dude. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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