Not to but, I was fine with a "friendship" between him and her. My wife has other friends that are guys, and I have friends that are girls and we both call and text theses friends. We don't call them Darling, Sexy, Sweetie, or any other stupid thing like that and we don't call or text them excessively to a point where that friendship becomes an "issue", there are certain boundaries in a normal male/female relationship. Lance doesn't appear to understand these boundaries. His friendship became more like a virus, worming its way farther and farther in until it had to be stopped. I'd like to also say that I never intended for this thread to develop into what it has, I did not set out to turn all of OR against you Lance, afterall remember this thread originally began as a thread "praising" you, many of the people here are just followers and are jumping on the "bash Lance bandwagon" cause its the fun thing to do at the moment, and thats fine, let them have their fun, they'll eventually get bored with it. But perhaps you can learn a few things from it and become a better person because of it. I'm not a big fan of hating people or having them hate me, I've just sat on this frustration for some time and it needed to be released, better here than in a fist fight at some bike night, which wouldn't have solved anything.