You just gotta know how to play them man. Shiny objects, never listen to them. Leave when you want, do what you want. They should get the hint. Dude...seriously? Really? Every guy has had a love/hate relationship with a woman. But...you have this with WOMEN? I prefer to be disease free, like my friend Mr A. So hookers are...a no go. If you want some poon, your eventually going to have to end up dealing with them. Not every relationship has to be serious. Go as long as you can, or want... and then kindly show them the door.