We call this the 'No Zone' in the MSF BRC classroom. The motorcyclist is responsible for their own safety. Don't trust other drivers and don't assume anything.
Not knowing the noise level it is impossible to say who is wrong. With that said, if you run a stock exhaust you should have no issues. If you want to be obnoxiously loud, you get everything that comes your way. Respect is a two-way street. I don't want to hear loud motorcycles, cars, trucks, whatever. The sooner measurable, enforceable noise laws are put in place the better. If asshats with straight pipes had a brain and some respecy, noise ordinances and motorcycle bans would have no need to exist.
Get qualified training now. It is much easier to learn how to ride if you don't have to break bad habits first. Take the Motorcycle Ohio BRC. It will be time and $25 well spent.