wow. may i ask, what brout you to ohio? i dont know the neighborhood you are living in but our realtors pushed hard for dublin or marysville since the job was @ honda, and we half a pack of our own. even b4 i stepped foot in central ohio, i had already done all my research about the schools, poverty, crime, neighborhoods, places of commercial growth, where the goodies were/and werent, and places to go/areas to avoid. for example, i love to hit the mexican grocery over off morse road but im not fond of the area. i go there to get the good carne asada. cbus has been relatively good compared to a relocation to texas we did once before. it was horrible and left back to san diego months before my husband. maybe its just not for you. my son ached to return home the first 12 months and then suddenly it stopped. i know find ohio to legit home and my two youngers' have grown up relatively here. i returned home this summer for about a month in sandiego/oc. for the first time ever, i didnt have that yearning for home like in other times, although there will always be the beach and mountains that i miss dearly. we live in corona and the 91 fwy/parking lot sucks ass and that was once thing im glad not to deal with any longer. that and the price of gas! so, where is home if you go back? when you calm, maybe think about options in moving to a different neighborhood on the outlying areas of cbus. i have never had a problem here at all.