Beegreenstring is right -- you have nothing to loose and worst case scenario, you get to come on ORDN and entertain us with the crazies. Some one also said there is alot of women with baggage/kids on these sites. I think the expectation out there is if she is 30 plus, there is a strong likelyhood for kiddos or vice versa. The good thing is you can weed out your options in advance (im assuming there is a box that you can check "with kids" or without, etc..)