U.P is exactly right. I went on the coshocton ride last year, and ride a bigger bike, but I was still at the very back of the slow group and still had a blast. I didn't speed, and never got separated.I got passed a few times, by some guy running, but regardless, it was fun. Keep yourself in your comfort zone. Theres nothing wrong with wanting to be a better rider, but just because someone is faster, doesn't mean they are a better rider. Your whole riding scenario made me think of the "twist of the wrist II" movie.