I think she is trying to understand what drives a man to do some of the things they do. A man or woman that truly cares about there child would not risk losing addtional time, unless there was an emergency.
Remove low jack park outside and look away. Then buy a 300. I have read all I can on this and so far seams like you have done about everything others tried too.
Gear as in helmet, gloves, jacket, pants, and no flip flops. Some "jeans" are considered riding gear. I never said all gear, just gear. I don't remember you being there