I've moved a few times for my current employer but I didn't have a house to sell or a woman to worry about - okay, the move to Toledo cost me my ex but that isn't a big loss. Plus, they don't pay for relocation's so it was all my dime to stay with them. If your fiancee isn't too hip on the idea, though, and you love her...i.e. you cannot be without her....you need to listen to what she says about it and plan accordingly.