Those aren't his feelings or words, they are mine. He isn't complaining about caring for his kids and neither am I. I am trying to make the point that in no way does this woman deserve the amount that she receives based on what she did. All of your contract talk is funny. You make it seem like marriage isn't about love and respect, but business. That's my point.
There should be a clause stating that if one of the two parties involved decides to ruin the relationship by cheating multiple times and then breaking the "contract", that they don't get to reap the benefits of your said "contract".
Unfortunately, that isn't the way that this works.
Bottom line is that you know the facts about what the laws are due to obvious reasons. I have opinions on it, that have zero effect on those facts. I don't claim to know all of the facts, but I am unfortunately aware of a few that I don't agree with. If someone is getting divorced make sure to get a good lawyer.