Its the start of winter, yes many of the fun outside activities are on hold until spring. I agree the winter months are depressing but you need to fill the time with something(joining a gym, reading books/etc) that may make you happier during the winter time.
You have a 14 year old daughter and agree most teenage and high school kids don't want to hang out with their parents. However, my high school kids(16 year old girl and 17 year boy) are into activities that I like to attend(high school swim team during the winter months).
I have also filled my time in working on polish the rims on the 78 corvette. Yes, this is not a hard project, it just takes time and I drink a few beverages when I go out to the barn to work on this.
You just need to find something to do that isn't too hard to do that makes you happy, everyone is different so it may take a few tries to find something you like.