You don't sound sound like you are over-reacting... You sound like a little bitch.
They are doing their jobs, if people are worked-up about it then they sound like "little bitches" too.
Reality is, you could complain to the CPD, and they aren't going to do anything... Other then think you are a little bitch.
Either way you slice it, your man card gets pulled.
My advice, buy a gun and a chest rig. Sounds like you livin on Crenshaw. Y'gon need it playa.