if its your first one don'y buy anything untill after the baby shower your going to get hooked up....
if you buy clothes buy neutral stuff becuase as good as doctors are you never know ( we had to return a bunch of pink stuff when our second came out a boy and not a girl)
give the woman whatever she wants even if its unreasonable life will be more tolerable
and for practice try sleeping for two hours at time once or twice a day thats all your liable to get at first