I'm married and can do whateva I want. BE MARRIED, STILL HAVE FUN CAR.   
Be Paul#2, get a gf, cut nuts off, sell everything that entitled him as a man. Become his woman's footstool, and then take her last name when they get married.  :barf:         
All in good jokes my lil bra with a pinch of srsness.  As long as You're happy, nothing else matters. 
Just don't ever give her the upper hand or you're fucked.