I agree with Anthony and Brian on both of their posts. I can see how upset one can be after they "feel" as though they are going to receive an item and then it is sold underneath them. I can also see that selling to a close friend/family trumps anybody on CR or in the world for that matter.
Anthony did the right thing. Although it sucks for Jerrod he's just gonna have to realize that friends come first. Dry your tears and move on.
CR's reaction after reading Phil's post
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Kenny's reaction after reading Phil's post
http://gifs.gifbin.com/1234443297_ken_park_suicide.gif