I disagree. There's no respect in fear, just fear which will turn to resentment and rebellion. Respect implies "wanting to do something" because of the result; fear means "not wanted to something" because of fear of consequences. The legal system is perfect example of that latter not working on a very grand scale, let alone trying to believe a kid gives a crap about being spanked. Even teens feel they are invincible. CR's own rules don't really do any good either.
Work for me and you won't fear the consequences. Being fired doesn't scare many people at all. However, watching those that excel reap the rewards will do wonders for changing people's behavior. Especially when "they themselves" are the ones who determine if they too get those rewards. People under me learn quickly they determine what happens "because of them"; nothing happens "to them." I'm very clear with my expectations of people at work and with my kids at home. I'm also very clear that the result is not something I'm going to decide, but rather are.
Looking at the opposite ends of the spectrum, either people are raised to "want to do something" good in life or will not give a shit if they don't. One could call that social or moral value. I won't debate the morality card here but in terms of social value, not everyone has it. Nothing new to society though. Only difference is today, we worry about people with low value more than we ever have. To a fault if you ask me.
Here too. Only my toys are now more expensive and sometimes a bit more dangerous :gabe: