damn, you DO have a lot on your plate. let's see, dad decided not to GIVE you a car (you're 21), you need to buy gifts for people, and the rest is all related to owning and modifying a piece of shit car-----i can see how you're so "taxxed" with all these important life issues all hitting you at one time. i'm surprised you're able to hold it all together. you're doing so well though, if i was in your shoes, i'd be shitting bricks and pissing myself--not knowing what to do with so many 'life-altering' issues going on at once.