Im 20 and still live at home. No girls allowed to stay the night. I have tried to test it before but i respect the rules. I can see (now) being a parent and not wanting that and i can see how it can be disrespectful. I dont see your concern being "wrong."
The its gonna happen so cave in argument doesnt make sense to me. Most douche bags i know were raised like that.
Good news is she cant reproduce and spread her dis-respectfulness.
Used it this year. Was completely free and i liked using it. Handled my W-2s and my school loan/tuition. I recommend it. Also would check out Intuits MINT budgeting program. Also free.
Had a blast. I went there friday and i set the 5th fast lap they have had. (maybe 150lb guys do have an advantage) Cheaper and the flaggers actually have a clue what they are doing compared to GP.