If it were two male teachers and a female student, this would be a completely different conversation. Can you say your 16yr old self wouldn't have been down for the rodeo? I sure can't.
I'm working on it. Trying to figure out where it's coming from. You shouldn't see anything like that. Post up the picture here so others can chime in if they're seeing it also.
? I'm not sure what you're talking about. Can you take a screenshot of it? The only box I can think of only shows up when you check the box next to the post number in a post. But it should only pop up when you have something checked.