The one thing I will say it this. My ex hated my toys/hobbies with a passion and even though I still had them, I always did whatever I could to make her/us happy. After the split I realized that I had changed myself and my habits so much that I told myself never again would I change myself for someone else and I havent. Where the problem lies is that fact that now Im not willing to change anything for anyone else which is also a problem within itself. Just dont let yourself become the asshole. As Im sure you know everyone on here knows me as the asshole of the board and the ones that know me personally, think I am even a bigger asshole. You have to find a happy medium with yourself and your significant other.